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LETTER TO MY TEENAGE BOY AND GIRL


My young boy and girl, you should make it a market of your time to discover the origin of love and 
 friendship, because it is only a mad man who eats without seeing the face of what he or she is eating.
Love and friendship comes from the most high God. He is the inventor. His intention for creating love and friendship is to help mankind. God invented love when he realized that men cannot be at peace without his love being with them. My young boy and girl, what you feel for the opposite sex is not love because love is far bigger than mere feelings.
At this sensitive point in your life, think of hoe to build stronger relationship not how to make love; LOVE is created through the act of relationship. Love is developed through friendship.
My little girl, permit me to also say that sex is not a form of payment for someone loving you or doing something for you. There are many of your pseudo friends whose mindset and thought is to have sex with someone that they helped through the act of love. But true love comes from the heart.. it does not require anything. Don’t pay back a friends charity to you with sex.
I have heard that many of your friends tell you that love is blind. My dear, permit me to tell say that love is not blind, rather your feelings make you blind. Millions of young ones like you have been ruined when they realized that love is not blind. Feelings and attractions have blinded, the eyes of many. Don’t let it fool you. A lot of young ones has committed suicide when they realized that the sleeping love has opened its eyes, please don’t fall a victim.
Don’t rush into affectionate love. Do not be in a hurry to tell someone I LOVE YOU. Don’t join the bandwagon of the brain washed who thinks that attraction is 100% love.  This is infatuation. Unless you understand the radical difference between love and infatuation, you may fall out of love at least 15 times a year. True love develops out of relationship, caring, positive thought and core personal character traits, not through your ordinary perception or impression of another person.
I would love to pause here, but will surely write to you again concerning this matter. Have a wonderful weekend……….

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  1. Anonymous24 January 2014 at 07:06

    This piece is really inspiring. keep it up sir.

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