LETTER TO MY TEENAGE BOY AND GIRL 2

My dear, I believe that you enjoyed the last letter I wrote to you and you have also seen how important that letter is to your future. Well, just like I told you the last time I wrote to you, I am here to complete what I started.

Among many other things, I would love to remind you that you should not be confused when you see your opposite sex, behaving in differently in a relationship. Lack of understanding of the difference between a girl and a boy, makes a lot of your friends endanger their lives.  You should be able to know what the guy wants from you and you the guy should know what the girl wants from you. God created you all differently and reasons for doing this is best known to him. But I believe that God love variety and as such decided to create us all differently instead of a robot.

Lifestyle is another practical reason why a lot of your friends fall in love today and fall out tomorrow. Please I would love you to learn early that you can do things that will attract the attention of someone or push someone away from you. Please watch your lifestyle.

Dear, communication also is very important in any relationship you find yourself in. even though communication is over used in the world today, good communication is still one of the most important factors in any relationship or love. You also have to understand that communication is not just talking to each other, but it is all about sharing yourself verbally to someone you truly love.  Communication is the pillar of friendship and constructive relationship. My boy! My young lady! If you really want to find the real truth about love and friendship, form the act of communication and listening by6 banishing the root of shyness in your life.

I wouldn’t want to leave you ignorant of this; there are real friends as well as counterfeit friends. Don’t allow outward look deceive you even in CHURCH.  But you have to also understand that for you to have a good friend; you must also be a good friend. True friends think straight and talk straight. They don’t ask for sex in return for any favor. This doesn’t mean that any friend who does not ask for something in return automatically is a true friend. No! I can’t choose your friends for you, but be wise because who you follow, determines what follows you. Show me your friend and I will tell you where you are going to in life.

Finally, I want to leave you with these; “APART FROM THE FACT THAT PRINCINPLES OF LOVE COMES FROM GOD, THE LANGUAGE OF LOVE HAS UNIVERSAL APPEAL. IT HAS NO RESPECT FOR COLOR, SEX AND RELIGION. LOVE BREAKS CULTURAL AND POLITICAL BARRIERS.  AND FOR YOU TO LOVE TRULLY, YOU MUST FIRST LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF.